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Hi Big Dee...
Don't sweat it. We all have had to go through quite a learning curve with these DM's. But I might be able to help you a bit. Once you get the routing thing down on these DMs, you'll be hooked!
If you are coming from an analog console, where you routed everything to busses or maybe just a two track stereo buss, you would be right. Everything you do on the input tracking channel's fader gets sent to the subsequent buss and then out to your DAW. But, the DMs are much more flexible than that and they include something called "Input Bypass". Think of input bypass as a way to split the incoming signal from an instrument input, or in your case, the singer's mic signal. When you use input bypass, the signal splits right after the preamp's gain knob. One version of the signal, if routed correctly, goes directly to your DAW, usually over a fireWire channel, UNaffected by anything you do on the DM, such as fader movements. The other signal then would be routed to your DM's input channel fader and then out of the DM's stereo buss, out to your monitors/headphones. I probably should state here that this is only one version of routing philosophy, and is by no means the only or perfect way to do it. But, I will say that it is definitely a good place to start, especially if you are doing muti-track recordings and are new to the DMs.
Now, as to your issues of latency delay...most of the people here, and rightly so, see you making a common mistake in your routing, causing issues that can be easily be fixed. Using your situation specifically, when you were recording that singer, you were hearing two different versions of their voice, with a delay between the two. What you were probably hearing was the singer's mic input, as it was going through the DM's stereo Buss, and the signer's mic as it was going into the actual DAW track you were recording into, then out of the DAW's stereo buss, then back into the DM on another pair of channels, then out through the DM's stereo Buss. What is important here is that you MUTE the output of any DAW track you are recording into, so that the currently recorded signal does NOT go out through the DAW's buss and gets mixed in with the signal coming into the DM from the mic input.
You might be thinking...well, if I can't hear the voice as it's being recorded from my DAW, the how could it be synced with the music coming out of the DAW. This issue is typically taken care of with Delay Compensation, a feature that is built into most DAWs.
So, with that in mind, you may be best served by using the DM as a completely delay free "monitoring" board when tracking/recording. By using "input bypass" in your DM's routing, send one signal of the mic directly to the DAW track you want to record into and the other signal can go into the input of an assigned input channel on the DM, and then out through the stereo buss for monitoring. Allow the previously recorded music from your DAW to play through whatever two DM channels you have assigned to your board that handle your DAW's stereo buss. Move the faders as you need to, but make sure the signal coming out of the actual DAW track is muted at the DAW track. The end result will be no latency delays and a perfectly synced recording in your DAW.
If you need a step by step for this, let me know.
S